Should
I say it’s disgusting when I see some men who could approach any woman
they come across, or women who say YES to any man who woo them?
The word “taste” as it is used in this context means “the values that someone possesses that you appreciate”. Honestly, everybody must have a taste, in order to avoid some bad happenings in the future. In this article, you will get to know the 7 different tastes you must have and why it is a must to have them.
I was having fun with some friends in a restaurant when a lady entered. To me, she was neither attractive nor charming at all. One of my friends was lost in concentration that he couldn’t give a reply to what I asked. Immediately I noticed that it was the lady that he was looking at, I gave him a scornful look and told him “you don’t have a taste!”. It was not really that the lady might not be attractive to him, but I knew my friend well - that was how he did for every other ladies he came across.
When he curiously asked me what I meant, I needed to explain the types of taste that he must have, if he would not want a broken home at an earlier time of marriage. Here are they:
Most people do mix up “the color” with “the beauty”. No! they are different!. I once heard someone who said the entire light-skinned lady he had ever seen were beautiful. It was immediately that I corrected him that he had not been to places. If he had really gone to places, he would see many light-skinned lady who are ugly than the chimpanzees.
Also, it should be noted that people who think most “blacks” are ugly are wrong. Haven’t you seen a black man who is more handsome that the “whites”? Yes! There are. So, either black or white, the choice is yours. HAVE IT AS A TASTE AND GO FOR IT.
In other hand, “the height” as well is also an important choice that you must make. You may prefer to have a partner who is short or tall.
Read : 3 Main Things That Could Prompt Your Partner To Take A Divorce Decision And Ways To Avoid Them
Another important type of taste is “the way s/he communicates”. Here lays UNDERSTANDING, as well. Communication also has different parts. It could be “the manner of communication”. While some people communicate rudely, others may communicate with you and your head will swell. We have different manners. Some people are bold and can communicate their feelings to you while some lacks the spirit of communication. Which one do you like? While you may also communicate with some people once and feel satisfied – because they have much understanding, you may communicate with another person in 100times and still feel bored.
In fact, communication also has a several roles to play, if you are ready to marry him/her. YOU MUST HAVE IT AS A TASTE AND GO FOR YOUR CHOICE.
In the other hand, some ladies also want to get married to someone who is older as their fathers while some said they couldn't marry a man who is older than they. We exist in different taste. But do you believe that, if you have this kind of taste, some do not have? And those are the people who this post is directed to.
This
is one of the mistakes most people make and today, it has spoilt their
relationships. When you are not an atheist, you must have your ways you
worship your God. Even if you are an atheist, have an atheist partner.
Most people give the excuse that "the love is blind" and married a wrong partner. Is it the love that was blind or they? Also, most people do not give much regards to the "religion aspect" . They say "it doesn't disturb when there is love". It's true that it doesn't disturb but when the worries it'd later give comes, I pity the lives of your kids. There was a certain time I thought of having a Christian as a partner when I was a Muslim. I had my reasons and fully understood the consequences I'd be bearing. You can be a Christian and your partner religion-taste is Muslim in as much as you understand the consequences you'd be dealing with. HAVE THAT TASTE TOO.
Real also: Top 20 Signs That Shows Your Relationship Is Ending
Even, Islam as a religion supports considering the wealth status of a partner before you marry him/her,though it's the last on the list. Wealth-taste is also a must-have taste.
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The word “taste” as it is used in this context means “the values that someone possesses that you appreciate”. Honestly, everybody must have a taste, in order to avoid some bad happenings in the future. In this article, you will get to know the 7 different tastes you must have and why it is a must to have them.
I was having fun with some friends in a restaurant when a lady entered. To me, she was neither attractive nor charming at all. One of my friends was lost in concentration that he couldn’t give a reply to what I asked. Immediately I noticed that it was the lady that he was looking at, I gave him a scornful look and told him “you don’t have a taste!”. It was not really that the lady might not be attractive to him, but I knew my friend well - that was how he did for every other ladies he came across.
When he curiously asked me what I meant, I needed to explain the types of taste that he must have, if he would not want a broken home at an earlier time of marriage. Here are they:
#1."THE LOOKS" - TASTE
The first type of “taste” that is the most compulsory for everybody is “the looks”. Yes, you heard it right. Don’t you have how you want your partner to look like, before you'd ever meet him/her? The looks you may search for in that partner are just three: the “color”, the “height” and the “beauty”.Most people do mix up “the color” with “the beauty”. No! they are different!. I once heard someone who said the entire light-skinned lady he had ever seen were beautiful. It was immediately that I corrected him that he had not been to places. If he had really gone to places, he would see many light-skinned lady who are ugly than the chimpanzees.
Also, it should be noted that people who think most “blacks” are ugly are wrong. Haven’t you seen a black man who is more handsome that the “whites”? Yes! There are. So, either black or white, the choice is yours. HAVE IT AS A TASTE AND GO FOR IT.
In other hand, “the height” as well is also an important choice that you must make. You may prefer to have a partner who is short or tall.
Read : 3 Main Things That Could Prompt Your Partner To Take A Divorce Decision And Ways To Avoid Them
#2. COMMUNICATION - TASTE
Another important type of taste is “the way s/he communicates”. Here lays UNDERSTANDING, as well. Communication also has different parts. It could be “the manner of communication”. While some people communicate rudely, others may communicate with you and your head will swell. We have different manners. Some people are bold and can communicate their feelings to you while some lacks the spirit of communication. Which one do you like? While you may also communicate with some people once and feel satisfied – because they have much understanding, you may communicate with another person in 100times and still feel bored.
In fact, communication also has a several roles to play, if you are ready to marry him/her. YOU MUST HAVE IT AS A TASTE AND GO FOR YOUR CHOICE.
#3. AGE DIFFERENCE - TASTE
Has s/he passed your looks and communication tastes? Age difference is also what you must have as a taste. For example, I loved to marry a woman whom I'd be older than she with at least 3years. Do not laugh at me! That's my own taste amd I have my reason. Some other men love to marry a woman of the same age as they, while some love to marry a woman who is older than they. Yes, there are.In the other hand, some ladies also want to get married to someone who is older as their fathers while some said they couldn't marry a man who is older than they. We exist in different taste. But do you believe that, if you have this kind of taste, some do not have? And those are the people who this post is directed to.
#4. RELIGION - TASTE
Most people give the excuse that "the love is blind" and married a wrong partner. Is it the love that was blind or they? Also, most people do not give much regards to the "religion aspect" . They say "it doesn't disturb when there is love". It's true that it doesn't disturb but when the worries it'd later give comes, I pity the lives of your kids. There was a certain time I thought of having a Christian as a partner when I was a Muslim. I had my reasons and fully understood the consequences I'd be bearing. You can be a Christian and your partner religion-taste is Muslim in as much as you understand the consequences you'd be dealing with. HAVE THAT TASTE TOO.
Real also: Top 20 Signs That Shows Your Relationship Is Ending
#5. WEALTH - TASTE
You may be a man and desire to marry a wealthy lady, either her own wealth or her parent's. Again, do not say "love is above everything". That's how most people misuse the word "love". Are you telling me you won't pack out of that man's house if he remains poor for 30years of marriage when you see your friends' husbands buying cars for their wives. What spoilt my own parent's home?Even, Islam as a religion supports considering the wealth status of a partner before you marry him/her,though it's the last on the list. Wealth-taste is also a must-have taste.
#6. SEX - STRENGHT - TASTE
Never think that the only way to know someone's sex strength is by having sex with the person. You want to know the other ways? This shall be discussed in another post. So subscribe to this blog if you don't want to miss it out or like us on Facebook and Twitter.#7. BEHAVIOR - TASTE
This kind of taste is the one that most people say it's hidden. That is, each person automatically hides his/her behavior before marriage - that is, it's when the couple starts to live together that each partner's true behavior reveals with time. However, you can know the possible behavior of a partner before you get married in so many ways. Sorry, that would also be another post. So, don't forget to subscribe, like and follow easy blog blog.Is there any thing I forgot to add? Please add yours via the comment box and it shall be updated in the post, after review.
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