3 Main Things That Prompts Your Partner To Take A Divorce Decision

A divorce decision is not a kind of decision taken and executed in an eye - blink. Before your spouse can summon the courage to tell you "I want a divorce" or "pack your things and go", there would be so many times s/he would think about it. Now what could make him/her to think about the dreadful decision in the first place? This post is designed to answer this question. So, keep reading


Divorce, which has been the song of most couples especially nowadays is very dangerous. It is dangerous to the lives of the divorcees themselves, and mostly the lives of the children. In my next article, I'll tell you someeffects of your divorce on the lives of your children. By then,you would not like your spouse to divorce you if truly you love your child(ren).

There is a fact that most people in relationship do not want to believe it exists - your spouse's plan may be veiled to you until the day he sends you out or hand over a letter of divorce proceeding from the court.
Certainly, when you know the main things that prompt most people to take a divorce decision, they can henceforth be avoided if addressed well. The 3 things are discussed below:

• MONEY 
• THIRD PARTIES
• and... S*X

Read also: 5 Main causes of marital breakup and 14tips to avoid them. 

#1. MONEY

As it is always said, "money is the key to happiness". It's also they first and the main key to a happy home.
A very little percent of existing relationships works without money, if possible. Living to survive in a relationship needs money. You cannot expect a woman to stay with a broke guy for long. Either you are already blessed with child(ren) or not, your marriage can never last long when your relationship lacks enough money to maintain it.

Maybe you might be thinking it's only the men that must by all means have the money to maintain the relationship. No, the women are also involved. A man who observes that whenever his wife needs anything, no matter how cheap it is, she still needs to look up to him may gets tired one day. And if he doesn't get tired, things which have been turning out right for him may turn the other way. That is why being a full house wife may be a bad idea.

There was a case of a man who publicly disgraced his wife when she asked him money to buy a match. Are you not also surprised? When she did not have the money, who else could she have turned to, if not her husband? Now, her husband was tired.

No matter your position in your home, you still need money to maintain that same home.

#2. THIRD PARTIES

You started to have third parties since the day you started to date. And your third parties increases as each day passes. They never decrease.

Third parties are the people, that are in a way or the other, involved in your relationship besides you and your spouse. Third parties could be friends, families and even enemies. Third parties could be your concubine(s), if you keep extra marrital affair. They could be your own parent or your in-laws.

In actual fact, third parties can easily break your home faster than money or any other thing. When you begin to hear strange things from third parties, you would want to find out if they are true. Even if there are no elements of truth in what you heard, the statements you heard would leave some dark traces in your mind.

Therefore, beware of what you discuss with third parties. Never talk about your relationship with a third party, especially a distant third party.

Watch out : 5 Signs that's shows your relationship is ending

#3. SEX

When I was young, I witnessed many discussions of different sets of people about this. One was between my aunt with her husband. My dad was the one making peace for them that day. They thought I was too young that the offensive words spoken were meaningless to me. I clearly heard everything and learned from it though.

My aunt reported that she noticed her husband having an affair with another lady after 2kids. When her husband was asked to talk, he told my dad "Your sister doesn't allow me to have s*x with her as she used to do".

Truly, his excuse was genuine though he didn't apply much wisdom as my dad told him many things he should have done instead.

I read a novel about a lady who would leave her rich husband's house and would travel a distant journey to meet her ex-boyfriend whom she had left many years ago, because her ex-boyfriend had her s*x strength.

If my aunt's husband wanted to go legal, he could easily divorce my aunt for the lady, so their relationship could have ended there. Also, had it been that the lady's ex-boyfriend had what kept her waiting in her husband's house, she would decide to quit the relationship.

S*x should not only be had to get children or to satisfy one self's pleasure. That is selfishness. Even if it is at your inconvenient time that your spouse wants s*x, grant him/her with happiness. That is why it is very advisable to go for someone who has the same s*x strength as you do.

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