In my previous post about the interesting facts about Virgins, where I said that most men would not want to have sex with Virgins. This fact has brought me so many queries that why did I say so? You can read it below :
10 Interesting Facts About Virgins
However, this is what you're on this page to read as I continued my research and found out the 5 top reasons why most men don't like to have sex with Virgins.
Thus goes the top Reasons :
#1. Sex With a Virgin is a Soul Sharing
Culture and norms in some places believe that, when you give yourself to somebody sexually, you give a part of your soul that can not be taken back.
Now, come to think of a Virgin, who has never had sex before - who you could probably shed blood for a man. The blood which some people term as a sacrifice.
Having sex with a Virgin really looks as if you both are now having either person's soul part becoming yours, and yours becomingj theirs too.
Haven't you imagined why it's very hard to forget women you deflower or women who deflower you? But why cab you easily forget people you have a casual sex with? It's simply because the person's soul is attached to yours, since the day you both had the sex.
Evans4life once said, "when physical act of sex takes place, there is also a spiritual union. Two spirits are being United - and that's a Soul tie'
Now, let us assume you have sex with a Virgin and later on, you couldn't make it to marry her. It'd simply means that your future wife would be marrying who is tied with another person's spirit, and so it is for the Virgin. Probably that's the main reason why some people have external marrital affair mostly with people they deflowered. And this is dangerous to the lives of your children. Check it out below :
#2. They cannot answer the question
" Would you marry me"? Why is this question? It is simply because most women love to marry who deflowers them, not even minding how many men that might sleep with them. All that matters is to marry who deflowers them.
Most men believe that, they can never tell what might happen tomorrow. There may be need to change location, or either of them loose contact or something else happened that could halt their relationship - and this could make their promises seem failed. Then, answering the question may be a problem.
Saying "YES" to the question might seem to be taking oath with the woman. And once an oath is taken, the repercussion is feared.
In the other hand, saying "NO" might lead to loosing the sex they really want, as at time of issuance. So they believe it's far better to have sex with a non-virgin than a Virgin.
You might like to have sex with a woman but might not wished to marry her. When you now discovers she's a Virgin and you're asked this question, you'd definitely want to say no because you don't want to take an oath. At the end, you loose in the game.
#3. They Fear To Hurt the Virgin
Most non-virgin women believes that first sex must be painful to women who has never had it. Most men confirms this too. Is that real? First sex hurts?
Some men also confirm this too. They don't want a loud scream. Men don't want the Virgin to make them feel that they caused the pain to them. They want what they'd give to a woman and she enjoys and appreciates.
Sincerely, many men never know it's possible to have sex with a Virgin and which she won't get hurt. I shall let you know how in one of my future posts. So, stay connected to study N love.
Meanwhile, some men would still want to have sex with a Virgin, even after they take the pain the woman would get into consideration. Their take on this is that, after all its once. She needs to bear the pain since it once and for all.
Again, most men do not like that once and for all thing. They prefer having sex with women who's beared the pain already in the past.
#4. Virgins are novices and cannot meet their need
Most men really want to have a hard core sex and with an experienced person. And not who they'd need to tutor. They want you to display your styles, dictate positions to them. Then having sex with a novice (a virgin) might not be a good idea for them.
#5. They're afraid of being cursed
Lastly, many men don't want to be cursed. When you get hurt during the sex and you get home only to find out that you're seriously wounded, you might want to curse him.
Or you later have any grudge in which you're on the receiving end. He offends you and it's to painful to you. Any moment you remember that he's the one whom you give your virginity to, you might be more hurt and curse him in the end.
So, most men likes to hide their heads from this curse. They don't want to involve themselves in problems like this, from women.
I'd really love to hear your say on this. Either you have another reasons why men don't like to have sex with Virgins, or you observe something. Just don't hesitate to make your comment.
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